Your New Chapter: Helping Women Pivot, Rebuild and Start Over With Clarity
Welcome to Your New Chapter — the podcast dedicated to the art of pivoting, rebuilding, and starting over.
Whether you've chosen to make a change or life made the choice for you, one thing is true: stepping into a new season is rarely straightforward. Maybe you're navigating a career pivot, rebuilding after a relationship shift, or simply waking up to the realisation that the life you've built no longer fits the woman you're becoming. Whatever brought you here — you're in the right place.
Through honest solo episodes and inspiring guest conversations, we explore what it actually takes to rebuild holistically — mentally, spiritually, relationally, financially, and purposefully. We'll help you get clear on who you are in this new season so you can stop spinning your wheels and start building a life that actually fits.
Your new chapter is waiting. Let's step into it together.
Your New Chapter: Helping Women Pivot, Rebuild and Start Over With Clarity
Recognizing the Red Flags: A Survivor's Story with Ariel Collin (Part 1)
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SUMMARY
In the first part of this moving interview, Shar talks with Ariel Collin about her personal experience of falling into and navigating a relationship with a narcissist. Ariel opens up about how the relationship started as a fun whirlwind during the isolation of COVID, only to slowly transform into a web of control, guilt, and isolation. They discuss the difficulty of identifying red flags when you're in the middle of it, the impact of moving away from support systems, and the "beads in a jar" analogy for realizing when a situation has become toxic.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR
- The "Whirlwind" Trap: Why intense early passion can sometimes be a warning sign rather than a fairy tale.
- What to look out for in terms of isolation tactics used by the narcissist and the impact of isolation.
- Microaggressions and Control: Recognizing the subtle ways a partner might control your clothing, schedule, and even your sleep.
- What is the The "Beads in a Jar" Analogy?
- Why hearing other people's stories is crucial for trusting your own intuition again
GUEST BIO
Ariel Collin is a former educator and sales professional who has successfully transitioned into business ownership. After navigating a long-term toxic relationship, Ariel is now passionate about sharing her story to help others recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse and find the strength to reclaim their lives.
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CONNECT WITH SHAR (Host)
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- Email me: hello@sharlenelee.com
- Website: Sharlenelee.com
DISCLAIMER
Your New Chapter podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice. Sharlene Lee is a life coach, not a licensed therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional. By listening you agree that Sharlene Lee and Your New Chapter are not liable for any actions taken based on content shared on this podcast.
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